When Anxiety Causes Abdominal Pain in Children

Anxiety-related (functional) abdominal pain is common in children and can be distressing. Learn the typical patterns, why the pain is real, how to support a child safely, and when to reassess.

Intro

Abdominal pain linked to anxiety — often called functional abdominal pain — is one of the most common causes of recurrent pain in children.

It can be intense, frightening, and disruptive.
And crucially:

The pain is real, even when tests are normal.

Understanding the pattern of anxiety-related pain helps families support children confidently without missing serious illness.


Why Anxiety Can Cause Real Pain

The gut and brain are tightly connected through the gut–brain axis.

In children:

  • Stress increases gut sensitivity
  • Normal bowel movements can feel painful
  • Gut motility may speed up or slow down
  • Pain signals are amplified

There is no tissue damage, but the pain experience is genuine.


Common features include:

  • Pain around the belly button
  • Recurrent episodes over weeks or months
  • Pain before:
    • school
    • exams
    • social events
    • separation from caregivers
  • Improvement on weekends or holidays
  • Normal appetite and energy between episodes
  • Normal physical exams and tests

Behavioural Clues That Reassure

Often more useful than pain descriptions:

ObservationSuggests
Distractible painFunctional
Plays when engagedLow risk
Pain settles with reassuranceFunctional
Normal growthReassuring
Stable patternFunctional

What Anxiety Pain Is Not

Anxiety-related pain usually does not:

  • Progressively worsen over hours
  • Localise to one spot
  • Wake a child from sleep
  • Cause persistent vomiting
  • Stop a child from walking or moving
  • Cause weight loss or poor growth

If these occur, reassessment is needed.


Supporting a Child Safely

Key principles:

  • Validate the pain — don’t dismiss it
  • Avoid excessive testing once serious causes are excluded
  • Maintain routines and school attendance when safe
  • Avoid reinforcing avoidance or sick-role behaviours
  • Address underlying stressors gradually

Psychological strategies (e.g. CBT) can be very effective when needed.


When to Re-evaluate

Seek medical review if:

  • Pain pattern changes
  • Pain worsens or localises
  • Pain wakes the child from sleep
  • Vomiting, fever, or blood in stool appears
  • Appetite or growth declines
  • Movement becomes painful

Anxiety vs Appendicitis vs Constipation (quick contrast)

FeatureAnxiety-relatedAppendicitisConstipation
Time courseRecurrent, stableProgressiveChronic/recurrent
LocalisationCentralOften right-sidedDiffuse/lower
Movement painNoYesUsually mild
AppetiteUsually normalDrops offVariable
Response to reassuranceImprovesNoSometimes

Decision Pathway

flowchart TD A[Child with abdominal pain] --> B{Progressive or localising pain?} B -->|Yes| C[Medical reassessment] B -->|No| D{Red flags present?\nVomiting, fever, night waking,\nmovement pain, weight loss} D -->|Yes| C D -->|No| E{Predictable stress-related pattern?} E -->|Yes| F[Likely anxiety-related\nSupport + routines + monitor] E -->|No| G[Consider other causes\nConstipation / UTI / review]

FAQ

Q: Can anxiety really cause severe pain?
A: Yes. The pain experience is real, even without disease.

Q: Will this cause long-term damage?
A: No. Functional abdominal pain does not damage organs.

Q: Should school be avoided?
A: Usually no. Maintaining routines helps recovery unless red flags are present.


Further Reading

  • Rome IV criteria for functional abdominal pain disorders
  • Royal Children’s Hospital: Functional abdominal pain guideline
  • American Academy of Pediatrics: Recurrent abdominal pain